Sekali lagi hai everyone..
Are you really in love? Or do you think that you are in love?
Love =to be very strongly attracted to someone in an emotional and sexual way.
Love adalah kisah persahabatan yang akan tumbuh dan akan terus bercambah.
Aku paling suka kaitkan love dengan “mature acceptance of imperfection”.
Oh yeah bila love dah menjadi akar yang sangat matang.Kau akan belajar untuk terima segala imperfection pihak yang lagi satu.Maka tidak hairan dah kalau terdengar cerita dari kawan-kawan kau.”what??kau baru lepas kentut depan dia?”.”dia kata busuk dan kami sambung bersembang”..
Dan bila kau start terima segala cacat cela pihak lagi satu akan timbul satu kekuatan yang mana kau akan masih terasa keberadaan pihak lagi satu walaupun bukan depan mata.Maksudnya korang saling berjauhanlah..Kau tahan sebab dalam otak kau dah ada memori yang kuat pasal pihak lagi satu dan wajiblah memori yang indah.Jauh ke dekat kau tahu yang “his mine..or she is mine”.jadi kau tetap tunggu pihak lagi satu..
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.
Love makes you feel whole. It completes the circle and fills the empty space in your heart.
Love makes you think up and look up.
Love= patient. Sabar dalam menanti sebuah jawapan.
Contoh :
Lu gantang.lepas tu nak bawa seorang awek cun ni keluar dating.Tapi dia tolak..
Relax dulu.sebab when we called it is love.kita kena bersabar.bagi dia peluang.mungkin ada sebab kenapa dia tolak.Dan lu lelaki gantang tu jangan cepat putus asa ok.
Have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time to grow at a natural pace.
It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.
Love is Kind Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others..
It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy.
Do this:
1. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement cards.
2. Compliment one another. Magnify the other party's strength.
3. Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important.
4. Treat one another special in public. Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.
5. Love is Not Jealous. Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget
about me!" Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.
6. Love is not about bragging. Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.
7. Love is Not Arrogant. Love is not conceited, boastful,cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanour implies, "You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you." Of course, this is not love.
8. Love always covers. This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential.
9. Love is patient with the faults of others. It doesn't criticise and broadcast to the world the faults of others.
Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.
10. Love always Perseveres. Love always stands its ground and hold out. It will outlast anything. It will even love in the face of unrequited love. Real love will last though all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.
11. Love is Not Provoked. This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended.
12. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of love. Love is other-centred rather than self- centred. Love says, "I love you, I want to give to you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"
13. Love does not act unbecomingly. This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishonourably or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its action. It is characterised by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manner. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offering her your arm when you walk together.
14. Lastly, Love is forgiving. This is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been
wronged. It doesn't remain resentful.
Infatuation= a strong feeling love that seems silly and you do not know the other person very well.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy.
Kenapa rasa macam ni?
Sebab kotak pemikiran penuh dengan persoalan yang tak terjawab.
“dia suka aku ke tak??”
Well.unclear feeling both of you together.
Dan ini tidak best sebab aku tak suka teka-teki..eyh apahal aku pula ni??
Infatuation ni kadang-kadang boleh bawa kita ke arah tuju yang tak betul.
Infatuation :”Jom kahwin sekarang sebab tak nak berisiko kehilangan.I just can’t face any losing "
Love : "Sabar.kena fikir masa depan sama.Cinta tak boleh buat kau kenyang sebab makan pizza hut sedap.Build up firts your future with confident".
Infatuation =sexual excitement. Kau sangat berharap bila kau pergi mana-mana dan ia akan berakhir dengan sebuah relationship yang sangat akrab secara personal antara kau dan dia.
Infatuation.Kurang keyakinan.Periksa pihak lagi satu tipu ke tak.Fikiran yang entah apa-apa.Ini juga adalah sangat tak best.
Love =not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
.INFATUATION.Real love+commitment+love of emotion= cinta yang berasaskan emosional semata=mata.
Tapi infatuation juga perlu dalam real love..
Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love.
Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you faint?
This is infatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction. often you don't know much in depth about the person you so called love. Thus, infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl you love her, unless you are willing to marry her.
Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless.Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the feeling than it is in the other person.
Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation.
This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if
you are truly in love.
** Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins. **
